Considering the fact that my experience with anal sex has been got vicariously through romance and erotica, I’m curious about something…
The fluttering or twitching rosebud which is meant to indicate the level of excitement felt by bottom boy… fact or urban myth??
‘Cos, I have to say, it squicks me out a little, especially when you get the visuals in yaoi.
But, hey, I’m always willing to be convinced. 🙂
I figure it's not so much a flutter as a muscle clench and release which depending on your ability could be flutter-like. Try it. LOL Muscles can do amazing things in the right (or wrong) circumstances.
That is a great pic, if rather disgusting.
When I think of anal sex I say “ouchie” So not my thing in either straight or gay.
Tam: Yeah, but using the description 'flutter' makes me think of a butterfly and 'twitch' makes me think of a nervous tick… neither of which are very anal sexy.
The pic is awesome. I think it will become my standard tmi pic. LOL.
KBC: I hope to God you're rubbing a butt cheek, my redheaded chook, cos otherwise that's just ewwww.
LOL rubbing that bottom under me. *grabs whip and makes bottom move*
O_O First it was menage and now we find out you're a Dom too??
It's official. The Innocent Redhead has left the building!
Those muscles naturally do not want to be loosened, but for anal sex they must be loosened. The twitching, fluttering, and/or winking is usually a result of the learned anticipatory relaxation behavior fighting against the natural clench instinct.
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Aren't you glad you asked? 😀
This Innocent Redhead says, give me two wee wees in the hoo haa any day. Poop shoot is off limits.
LOL, Jen. I knew I could rely on you. 😉
Butt *nudge, nudge* you know what I'll be thinking the next time I read a romance or an erotica and see the phrase 's/he winked at me'. 😀
BTW, how does one become a 'got-to girl for anal sex' or an 'anal sex guru'?? The mind positively boggles.
KBC: I thought you said the 'two-in-one' squicked you out?? One wonders what's happened to change your mind.
Please don't make me spell it out for you.
Well, I wasn't surprised that Jen had a link for us, however I was only slightly disappointed that it wasn't a video of a winking rosebud. Does that make me a bad person.
OMG…Tam's comment reminds me of the time I actually did a search for “rosebud” on XTube. In porn it means something entirely different.
*whines* But, Jen, we all need something to aspire to and I seriously need to know.
Is it like gaming and you have to collect gold butt plugs (in increasing sizes) or something to reach the next level?
Oh, oh, do you get an 'anal sex guru' t-shirt when you've finished the course?? T-shirts are much better than certificates, etc, IMHO.
Rosebud, ain't the sled anymore.
Pffft. I didn't take a course in it. I just have it. Pretty frequently. And I enjoy it!
THERE. Now shut up.
Tam: No, I don't think that makes you a bad person. Pervy, yes, but not bad.
Besides, it's obvious that Jen is deliberately teasing us. The proof – Now we all have to go searching xtube to work out what the porn version of a rosebud is. She is evil. 😦
Well, I would post links for you, but my husband is sitting right behind me. O_O
Shut up??? SHUT UP?!?! How rude!!!
*Psst. How often is frequently?? Every other night? Once a fortnight?? You saw the original post with the word 'vicariously' didn't you??*
'Sitting' isn't a euphemism like winking right?? Cos, you know, I do my darnedest to keep this blog as clean as possible.
Maybe this t-shirts (I may not be an expert on anal sex but I know my dirty t-shirts)
Jeez, I dunno! A couple of times a month? *blushes like crazy*
And “sitting” just means sitting, you dirty girl.
*snort* I'm glad that we have 'experts' like you and Jen to rely on, Tam.
However, I am too-infinity-and-beyond disturbed by the coffee cup that says 'Mommy's Little Systems Analyst'. That's a whole lotta WTF right there.
Haahahaha…here we go:
you both are dirty, dirty girls. I feel left out.
*smacks bottom hard and makes it crawl over to lick my feet*
Now I'm embarrassed. Filthy mean girls.
*grumbles and kicks dirt*
'Jeez, I dunno! A couple of times a month? *blushes like crazy*'
Ree-hee-eel-lee. *waggles eyebrows*
Me, a dirty girl?? Who was the one who brought up anal sex in the first place!
DomKBCatrix: Me?? It's Jen!
DomKBCatrix has a nice ring to it.
Jen, so now I wanna know…
Has your hubby asked why you're blushing yet?? *mwahahahahaha!*
Pfft…he'd probably get excited if he knew what I was talking about.
“DomKBCatrix has a nice ring to it.”
Sure does roll off the tongue. *ba boom*
“Pfft…he'd probably get excited if he knew what I was talking about.”
You mean you'd probably reach your monthly quota??
Okay. You seriously need to stop encouraging me. It's day time here and I'm meant to be working, people!!!
The things I come across when I come on this here blog. All I can say is y'all are disturbing. lol
Well, since I'm 99.9% sure that 'y'all' is American for 'they', Bridget, I have to say that I agree with you. 'They' are pretty disturbing.
Y'all. Notice the apostrophe.
Sheesh. Yet another dissed punctuation mark.
You need to watch more vids Kris. They will show you.
Well you learn some stuff about your fellow bloggers here don't you?
*goes off to scrub brain with bleach*
KZ: “Sheesh. Yet another dissed punctuation mark.”
Yeah. Fun, isn't it. 😀
Ingrid: Yes. Obviously my education in the area of porn and other educational videos is sadly lacking.
Jen: Well, you can't say I didn't warn everyone that it was prob'ly TMI.
Only for educational purposes of course.
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OMG you guys! I think I need another cup of coffee. LOL
When they say fluttering or twitching I just think gas. lol I know, I'm a sick puppy. If it's clenching it seems much more “realistic” to me.
Wow – it's amazing what you find out when you read comments! lol
I'm thinking I should change my name now. LOL
Nah Jen…we just like you more for it anyway! lol
But Tracy if Jen changed her name after she'd run away to join a cloistered nunnery she could be Sister ReMaidenly Virtue or Sister Emanunoanal.
I vote for Sister Emanunoanal. Does she has a long ruler to keep the students in line?
Ingrid: I've bookmarked it… for vicarious reasons. 🙂
CJ: Don't you mean a cigarette?? LOL.
Tracy: Now I'm gonna think of farting every time I read a sex scene. Gee, thanks mate.
*what is it with you and BDSM at the moment*
Katiebabs chook: I agree that Sister Emanunoanal would seem to be right up our Jen's alley. Sso to speak.
It's a cloistered nunnery so no students or visitors allowed. It helps them against the temptation of their former lives.
Y'all are so juvenile. 😛