love & hope



I don’t know about you but I’ve run the gamut of mixed emotions in the last week or so with regard to recent events in the US.


There is no question that I’ve felt horror, anger and sadness; however, I’ve also been unbelievably honoured to watch the messages of hope which are being given to young GLBT people by their peers and elders through such projects as It Gets Better.

It is quite simply one of the most inspiring things I think I’ve ever witnessed.

So, being in a contemplative and hopeful mood, I decided to again post this clip of a favourite song of mine.

Enjoy.


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m/m graphic novel appreciation series: melissa’s guest post (pt 1)

The fantastic Melissa has allowed herself to be talked into an interruption in her busy, busy life to write a two-parter post for the yaoi series.

There are a heap of great recs here including some anime, which, even though they’re not technically reads, I will allow Melissa… since they’re so pretty and all. 😉

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When Kris emailed me to see if I wanted to contribute to this series, I pondered what I could write about, how I could write it, and how to make it interesting. Unfortunately, (for you ;p) I just completed 6 years of college so my mind is set on reports and research papers… So be grateful that I am currently a headless chicken and didn’t have the time to go as in-depth as I wanted to (in other words, yes this could have been much longer).

To begin let me properly introduce myself, my name is Melissa and I’m presently live in Texas, I’ve been reading all types of m/m fiction since 2004, which included yaoi and even took four semesters of Japanese in collage in order to read native manga (Actually, it was either Japanese or Spanish and I failed Spanish in high school…).

Now when I started reading m/m fiction I had to stumble my way across pretty much everything. I would have loved to have a general overview of what was what. What I learned was that just like any book genre there are many sub-genres, and this applies for manga as well. The genres cover everything from sci-fi/fantasy to school boys; therefore, you have to browse around to find your faves 😀. So, I decided to take a little format from this mindset in order to present a Short Beginners Pamphlet and a Small Pervs’ Guide to Japanese based yaoi, shōnen-ai, dojinshi, etc. [snicker]. Also, I thought I could provide a couple of good websites to visit for both yaoi manga and anime, and a very small sampling of my favorites [that someone else has not covered].

Therefore, in order to provide basic information for future m/m enthusiasts I present to you…

“Manga Geared Towards Women or (MGTW)”

Ø Yaoi- The term yaoi is actually an acronym from the words yama nashi, ochi nashi, imi nashi (やまなし、おちなし、いみなし) “no climax, no point, no meaning” or Plot What Plot. It is a “catchall term for any manga [or novel] or anime that includes suggestive situations between male characters.” Though, most Westerners tend to view anything with the word yaoi in it as sexually explicit and are quite bummed if it’s not. My favorite yaoi [not already listed] are:

Manga:

1. Yellow- One of the first series of yaoi that I acquired. Beautiful artwork and a decent story.

Straight and macho Taki partners with feminine and gay Goh to form an expert team of bandits hired by the police to steal from the mafia. Lately, Goh has been more interested in acquiring Taki’s feelings than the usual caches of arms and drugs. Will Taki and Goh form a new kind of partnership? Volume one of Yellow begins with a brewing personal interest between Taki and Goh, though Taki is still unwilling to answer to Goh’s desires. A gangster’s jealousy leads to Taki’s kidnapping, and it’s up to Goh’s cunning and charms to save him. Working solo, it’s also up to Goh to find the drugs he was hired to steal while sidestepping a police conspiracy powder keg.

2. Kizuna- I was completely bummed when the American publisher stopped printing this. Great story, but only in English up to volume 9, the rest you would have to read as a scanlation.

Three’s a crowd. Ranmaru and Kei have a strong and passionate relationship built on years of trust, sacrifice and love. When the mysterious son of a Yakuza boss starts to have designs on Ranmaru’s affection, tempers flare, and hidden emotions rise to the surface. Will Ranmaru and Kei’s love for each other be able to survive this difficult test, or will the emotional conflict finally come to a head? Will come shrink-wrapped and carries an 18+ age advisory.

3. Love Is Like A Hurricane- In my eyes mostly a PWP yaoi, but still pretty 😀. There are five volumes.

Poor Mizuki has the worst luck. Gifted with beauty that rivals most females, he finds himself defending his honor in more ways than one. When he gets molested on board a train for school one day, he starts to think things can’t get any worse. That is until he is called into the student council office by the president, Azuma. Turns out the perpetrator of that morning’s foray is none other than the student council president himself! Azuma is not one for one night stands and begins his campaign to make Mizuki his own.

4. I Can’t Stop Loving You- I’m an unrepentant Fantasy/Sci-Fi lover, so these two volumes were just my cup of tea.

Kyouji is a Buddhist exorcist, although he can’t see ghosts, his best friend and lover, Yu, can! Maybe they’d go all the way if Yu’s incredible supernatural strength could be held in check. How can a steamy, sexy relationship survive such obstacles?

Novels:

Though yaoi novels are just that, most do have some type of drawing panels inside them. I enjoy novels as much as manga, but it was a surprise when I ordered my first one…I thought it was manga when I ordered it!

1. Dark Walker- A good fantasy novel and I love the drawings as well.

Tomoki Naruse has just started his freshman year in high school and, as with all healthy, young men at his age, he’s been dreaming of sex. But Tomoki isn’t having normal wet dreams like his classmates! In his nightmares, err… dreams… his partner is a man – and to make things worse, Tomoki is on the bottom! Aside from Tomoki’s unsettling dreams, high school life is fun – especially with his new, handsome, best friend Yugo Oda. But Yugo is no ordinary freshman – he’s involved in mysterious activities that Tomoki can’t even begin to imagine!

2. Selfish Demon King- This one was cute in some places and kind of silly in others. But it was good for a “down time” read.

Shizuku is an adorable and spunky high school student, but even he doesn’t know the secret he’s hiding. When Shizuku comes home from school one day, he’s met by a stunningly beautiful man. This paragon of exquisite beauty, Doga, the king of the magical realm, tells Shizuku that his true nature is that of a sexual mage!

3. Secret Moon- I really enjoyed this one! It has a vampire… kinda.

While enjoying the cool Yokohama night air, Viscount Akihiro Sanders Tomoe met a wild man, whose eyes burned like fire. Intrigued, he invited the young man back to his home.

Nearly a hundred years ago, a spurned lover ended Tomoe’s life. Madame had given him new life, but this gift was not without its limitations. Living again in Japan after an extended time abroad, Tomoe was on the prowl for a new lover. But he may have gotten more than he hoped for in young Taichi Yamagami. A young man with abnormal strength and eyes like fire, he awakened sensations within Tomoe that he had never felt before. But this young man was hiding a secret of his own. Influenced by the ebb and flow of the moon, he could be a sweet, naive intellectual, or a rough, demanding lover. Tomoe has never had a lover quite like this… what kind of man is Taichi?

Anime:

Yes, I know…this is supposed to be about “reading stuff”… but anime gives pretty pictures too and you can read subtitles! Plus, many of the most popular yaoi manga has been made into anime or vice versa.

1. Sensitive Pornograph- This anime has six stories and if I remember correctly out of the six five had good sex scenes.

This website gives a good overview of it.

2. Level-C. Classic.

Kazuomi, a single middle age businessman who just was dumped by his girlfriend meets a beautiful and a bit gullible boy Mizuki. Entranced by Kazuomi, Mizuki accepts him to live with him in his appartment so Kazuomi decides to pay back his kindness by giving to him with his body the highest pleasure.

3. Sex Pistols OVA -Called Love Pistols in the manga format and it is a very good fantasy yaoi manga! In fact, I think the OVA makes more sense if you have read the manga- Though the manga isn’t even done in Japan yet. Of course the 1st OVA isn’t as graphic as the manga is 😀.


Description about the manga series-

People are starting to act very odd around Norio. This average boy is suddenly getting a lot of unwanted romantic attention–and he just can’t figure out why! A fall down the stairs into the arms of a handsome stranger sets off the beginnings of an explanation, and it is one Norio never could have possibly imagined. Soon a whole new world opens up for Norio, revealing a secret society of special people evolved from animals other than monkeys. This society has a complex structure and its members are ranked by rarity and desirability, and it turns out that Norio is a particularly rare breed and his DNA is in much demand! How will he survive in this modern jungle where he’s suddenly the prey?!

*Cough* Ok, since this is so long… I’ll break it up and send another section next week!

ttfn!

Reference links:

http://www.graphicnovelreview.com/?p=67

http://www.villagevoice.com/2006-10-31/news/drawn-together/

http://www.csuchico.edu/~mtoku/vc/Articles/toku/Wil_Toku_BoysLove.html

http://moongsil.com/study/yaoi_eng.pdf

http://intersections.anu.edu.au/issue12/lunsing.html

All product descriptions are taken from Amazon.com.

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dear minions (& maybe a little nsfw)


Dear Minions

In anticipation of your celebration of the greatness which is the day of my birth, I humbly acknowledge your dedication to the glory that is me with a cookie…


No, no.

There’s no need to thank me.


Your leader in awesomesauceness,

Kris.
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random awesomeness



Still not 100% so won’t be around too much, but I really wanted to share with you all something I discovered last week and posted on Twitter.

It is Dan Savage’s ‘It Get’s Better’ project, which is aimed at giving hope to GLBT teens suffering from bullying following the recent suicide of yet another young person due to harassment.

You may have seen links to the YouTube channel already; however, I urge you to take the time to listen to these experiences and spread this important message.

If it is one thing that our kids need desperately today, especially those who are hurting and struggling to be true to themselves, it is hope.


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a wee time out


I have an obsession with Aladdin at the moment.
Yeah, I’ve no idea either.


It’s a long weekend here so I’m going to take the opportunity to take a wee break and try and get over this pity party I’m having.

Continued ill health + bad depression + wanky work shit = a grumpier than normal *yes, it’s possible* and an extremely tired Kris.

See you next week, which, of course, is the most important week of the year cos it’s my birthday on 30th September.

I expect lots of cookies and hugs.

Or else.
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your m/m story by stephani hecht


I know, I know.

I can’t believe it took Stephani Hecht this long to write your story either.

*tsk, tsk*

Anyhoo… What you chose for Stephani to include: a small town bar which is more than it seems; one of the main characters’ father is a drag queen; a female gay romance writer who keeps watching and taking notes; a team bus breaks down in the middle of “bumfuck nowhere” ( <- you have to use that phrase); a tshirt which says “I support Sidney Crosby of the Pittsburgh Penguins and anyone else who plays against Steve Yzerman of the Wings”; AND, four of your WTF?! responses to choice #5.

Here’s hoping that there are no authors out there who recognise themselves 😉 :

Click on me.

Enjoy! It’s t-rific! 😀

Thanks Stephani! *smooches*
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m/m graphic novel appreciation series: tam’s guest post



Please welcome the next guest in my m/m graphic novel appreciation series – and one of my closest virtual mates 😀 – the wonderful Tam!

No doubt you will all be totally surprised by the fact Tam has taken the opportunity to talk about her yaoi obsession with the sword…

*snicker*

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Swords and sorcerers and smexin’, oh my!

My exposure to yaoi started in a manner similar to many of us here. How was that? Kris made me read it. Honest. Kris asked me if I wanted to try some, and while I liked Pokemon and Digimon as much as the next parent out there, I really didn’t think reading “Japanese comic books” was my thing. And on top of that I had to do research on Wikipedia about how to read it. So much work. She finally beat me down and I agreed to take a shipment which arrived in six or seven years (thanks Canada Post for sending it first by sea turtle and then by tortoise).


The first book I read was Saihoshi by Košen. It is set in a fantasy kingdom where a Guardian is hired to escort to the prince to a neighbouring kingdom to be married and someone is out to stop them. The retinue includes the Prince’s servant who is disguised as the prince to distract the enemy. Kidnapping, murder, mayhem, sword fights, unexpected alliances and buttsecks ensues.

If I read that blurb for a “regular” book my eyes would glaze over and I’d move on to the next one. I really have little interest in fantasy stories and if the word mage shows up in the blurb that’s even more of a turn-off. I’m not sure why. I, as a rule, can enjoy fantasy movies and TV shows, but in books it just doesn’t work for me. But what did I find? HOLY HELL!!! I adore fantasy yaoi manga.

Another great series which has been recommended here is The Crimson Spell by Ayano Yamane, a swords and sorcerers epic which I loved and look forward to the next installment.


Crimson Wind by Duo Brand is another in a series of which I’ve only read this one book. It is actually a sequel to White Guardian which I have yet to read. I should remedy that as more in the sequel would likely have made a tad more sense.

I’m not sure why this type of story appeals to me only in this format. The brain works in mysterious ways. Maybe I’m visual, I need the pictures to get into it, you don’t need pages of written description, a couple of well drawn panels and you get it all. Or perhaps the manga lends itself to appealing costumes and hairstyles that are hard to describe in a novel. Hmm. There’s that visual thing again. How can you not totally become enamoured with the details and richness of the drawings? My dream would be to have the whole thing in color. You’d have to pay a fortune, but it would be a piece of bound artwork.


I’d love to get some recs from the other yaoi readers out there with more experience. I haven’t read that many but I’m open to trying some new ones in the fantasy sub-genre.

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maybe it’s me, but…



I know I talked about noticing the abundance of ectoplasmic cum ghosts in m/m romance lately, but this seems to have been taken over by stories featuring grieving heroes moving on to find new love after the death of a partner.

Or maybe these books were always there and I just made up the ghost thing??

*shrugs*

Either way, I don’t necessarily think this is a bad theme per se…

It just reminds me a bit of all those old Mills and Boon titles like The Widowed Duke’s Reckless Marriage To The Unconventional Italian Countess Who Was Actually A Spy And, Coincidentally, The Cross Dressing Bastard Son Of A Shiek.

Am I right or what.
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random awesomeness



For some reason this feels like it’s going to be a Drarry kind of a week.
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naughty cookies (nsfw)


First, there were hands down jeans…





Next, there were hands down undies…

And I do mean next… *hehehe*

Enjoy your weekends!
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